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Meeting With a Probate Attorney: How to Prepare for Your Consultation

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Key Takeaways

  • You do not need to understand California probate or trust law before speaking with an attorney.
  • Gather the documents and information you already have, but do not delay getting legal advice simply because something is missing.
  • Important dates can help an attorney identify potential deadlines.
  • Information about the inheritance, trust assets, property, and people involved can help an attorney evaluate the dispute.
  • Write down your biggest questions beforehand so you do not forget them during the consultation.

Key Takeaways

Meeting with a lawyer about an inheritance dispute can feel intimidating, especially if you are not sure what information matters or what questions you should ask. The good news is that you do not need to have everything figured out before your probate lawyer consultation.
At The Grossman Law Firm, our Intake Specialists first gather basic information about your situation. If your matter may qualify, they will collect relevant documents and schedule a Free Phone Consultation with Attorney Scott Grossman, who handles probate and trust litigation matters throughout California.
A little preparation can make that conversation more productive. Here are seven things you can do before the call.

How to Prepare for a Probate Attorney Consultation

You do not need to build a complete legal case before the consultation. Your goal is to give the attorney a clear picture of what happened, who is involved, and what may be at stake.

1. Gather the Documents You Have

Start with the documents connected to the inheritance or dispute.
Depending on your situation, that could include:
  • A will or trust
  • Amendments to a trust
  • Trustee notifications
  • Probate court documents
  • Trust accountings
  • Bank or investment statements
  • Property deeds
  • Letters, emails, or text messages
  • Documents showing the sale or transfer of property
Do not worry if you are missing something important. Tell the attorney what you have received and what you believe exists. Missing documents can sometimes be part of the problem, particularly when a trustee has not been providing information.

2. Write Down Important Dates

Dates can significantly affect a California probate or trust litigation matter.
Make a simple timeline of important events. Include dates such as:
  • The date someone died
  • When the person signed a trust or amendment
  • When you received a trustee notification
  • When you received a copy of the trust
  • When property was sold or transferred
  • When someone entered a hospital or care facility
  • When you requested information from a trustee
  • When the trustee responded—or stopped responding
You do not need every date to be exact. If you only remember that something happened around a certain month or year, write that down.
However, bring any notices showing exact dates. California law imposes specific deadlines in some trust disputes. For example, California Probate Code sections 16061.7 and 16061.8 generally limit a trust contest after service of a qualifying trustee notification to 120 days from service, or 60 days after the trust terms are delivered during that period, whichever is later.
That is one reason you should not wait to speak with an attorney simply because you are still gathering information.

3. Sketch Out the Family Tree

Probate and trust cases often involve several generations, siblings, half-siblings, second marriages, stepchildren, or other family relationships.
Before your consultation, make a basic family tree. It does not have to look professional.
Include the deceased person and the people who may be heirs or beneficiaries. If someone has died, note that as well.
This gives the attorney a faster way to understand who may have an interest in the estate or trust and how everyone involved is related.

4. Identify What You Expected to Inherit

Be ready to explain what you believe you should receive.
For example:
  • A percentage of the trust
  • A particular house
  • Money from the sale of property
  • A specific account
  • Personal property
  • A distribution you have been waiting to receive
If you are unsure of the exact amount, that is okay. Explain what you understand about your inheritance and why you believe there may be a problem.

5. Make a List of the Assets You Know About

An attorney will also want to understand what property may be involved.
Write down what you know about the trust or estate, including real estate, bank accounts, investment accounts, businesses, or property that has already been sold.
If real estate is involved, note the address and whether anyone currently lives there. If property was sold, write down approximately when it happened and the sale price if you know it.
You are not expected to uncover every asset yourself. The purpose of this list is to provide a starting point.

6. Save Communications With the Trustee or Executor

Emails, letters, text messages, and other communications can help establish what information you requested and how the trustee or executor responded.
Before your consultation, think about questions such as:
  • Have you asked for a copy of the trust?
  • Have you requested an accounting?
  • Has the trustee explained when you will receive your inheritance?
  • Have your requests gone unanswered?
  • Has the trustee given conflicting explanations?
  • Have you received information about property being sold?
Try not to summarize months of conversations from memory if you have the actual messages available. Save them so they can be reviewed if they become important.

7. Write Down Your Questions

It is easy to forget questions once a legal conversation begins.
Before the call, make a short list of the things you most want to understand.
You may want to ask:
  • Do I have a potential legal claim?
  • What additional information do you need?
  • Are there deadlines I should be concerned about?
  • Can the trustee be required to provide an accounting?
  • Can missing or transferred assets potentially be recovered?
  • What would happen if litigation becomes necessary?
  • What should I do next?
You are not expected to know which legal remedy applies. That is part of what the attorney is there to help you understand.

What If You Do Not Have Everything?

Do not assume that you should postpone speaking with an attorney until you have every document, date, and financial record.
Bring what you have.
If the trustee has refused to provide records, you cannot locate an amendment, or you do not know what happened to certain assets, explain that during the intake process. Those missing pieces may help the attorney understand the dispute.
The purpose of preparing is to make the conversation clearer, not to require you to investigate the entire case yourself.
If you are concerned about an inheritance, trustee misconduct, or missing information, The Grossman Law Firm can help you understand what matters and what steps may be available. Our Intake Specialists can evaluate your situation at no cost and determine whether your case may qualify for a Free Phone Consultation with Attorney Scott Grossman.

FAQ

How long should I prepare for a consultation with a probate lawyer?

You generally do not need hours of preparation. Spending some time organizing the documents, dates, people, and assets involved can make it much easier to explain what happened.

Should I send documents before speaking with the attorney?

If The Grossman Law Firm’s Intake Specialists ask you to provide particular documents before the consultation, send the requested copies so the attorney can review the relevant information.

What if I do not have a copy of the trust?

You can still contact an attorney. Explain what you know, whether you requested the trust, and what response you received.

Should I wait until I know exactly what happened?

No. In probate and trust disputes, determining what happened may be one reason legal assistance is necessary. Waiting can also create problems when a legal deadline applies.

How The Grossman Law Firm Can Help

You do not need to know the right legal terminology or arrive at your consultation with a perfectly organized file. Start with what you know, gather what you have, and be prepared to explain why you believe there may be a problem with your inheritance.
At The Grossman Law Firm, we help beneficiaries and heirs throughout California enforce their rights in probate and trust litigation.
Call (888) 443-6590 or fill out our Get Help Now form.
Our Intake Specialists can evaluate your case at no cost to you. Qualifying cases will be scheduled for a Free Phone Consultation with Attorney Scott Grossman.
Originally Published:  September 15, 2016